Document Type
Article
Publication Title
Journal of Positive Psychology
Abstract
Self-forgiveness and forgiveness-seeking are important and understudied aspects of forgiveness. We examined the cardiac and emotional patterns of healthy young adults (40 women, 40 men) who recalled an unresolved offense they had caused another person. Participants engaged in four imagery conditions: ruminating about the offense, being humbly repentant and engaging in self-forgiveness, seeking forgiveness from the victim and receiving forgiveness, and seeking forgiveness from the victim and being begrudged. Being repentant and begrudged forgiveness by one’s victim was associated with the same level of guilt as when ruminating, but significantly more negative emotion, less control, and less empathy than when ruminating, self-forgiving, and receiving forgiveness from the victim. Compared to ruminating about one’s wrongdoing, self-forgiving alleviated guilt and negative emotion, increased perceived control, decreased heart rate, and increased parasympathetic activation. Imagery of receiving forgiveness from the victim resulted in these same patterns and was equivalent to self-forgiveness across variables.
First Page
362
Last Page
372
DOI
10.1080/17439760.2016.1187200
Publication Date
7-4-2017
Recommended Citation
da Silva, Sérgio P.; vanOyen Witvliet, Charlotte; and Riek, Blake M., "Self-forgiveness and forgiveness-seeking in response to rumination: Cardiac and emotional responses of transgressors" (2017). University Faculty Publications and Creative Works. 208.
https://digitalcommons.calvin.edu/calvin_facultypubs/208